If you use the reason 'wrong size/doesn't fit' then that counts as a change of mind request and private sellers do not have to accept returns.
You needed to open a case using the reason the item was not as described.
You can try your payment source and start a chargeback on the grounds you bought an item online which was misdescribed.
"There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn't true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.”
Søren Kierkegaard, Danish philosopher (1813 - 1855)