Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't or couldn't have?

[alisonsvintagechicboutique]

Sensitive subject I guess but would love to hear your experiences good or bad if you would like to share  :-x

Particularly how you got over the other person (if you did...) and how the whole experience affected you. 

[ilove2patch]

Far too big a confession to make on here! 😉

[chickengrandma-2008]

OOOH  Maggie, that speaks volumes!:^O

[alisonsvintagechicboutique]

Blimin hurts thats all I know 😞

[cat-knitter]

Come on Maggie ....... do tell  😉

[fishpieface]

Oh Alison, that's sad for you.  Tell us if you feel it would bring comfort.

(((Alison)))

[kiss*my*pixel]

Ohhh, (((Alison)))     :-x  Yes it does hurt - a lot at the time, but it will pass. It really will, and you will recover, and you will find someone more worthy and deserving of you.

[mandymoosie]

(((( Alison )))) Thinking of you :-x

[merc1_clocks]

Yes!

It's the worst when you love someone, but know that you can't have that person...end of...cause now I'm sad.

[captainbovine]

I wouldn't want him now....OH is the best.

but he taught me a lot;-)

[kiss*my*pixel]

Right what we need now is a gathering at Alison's:

A coach driver to get us all there

Someone to bring the wine

Someone to bring the chocolate

Someone with crisps and dips

(No-one needs films, as Alison got a load at the car-boot the other day)

I will bring incinerator (there must be stuff that needs a ceremonial burning . . . ) and marshmallows to toast (therapeutic necessity)  🙂

[bitsnknots]

On new year's eve 1983, my dad took my mum out.  The day after, he packed his bags and left.  He's now married to what he left for but he's admitted that he's not happy but not my mum's fault.  It hurt my mum particularly hard at the time as they'd been married nearly 28 years.  She's well recovered from it now though.

[captainbovine]

:O..chris....glad she's got over it now. why do people think the grass is always greener?:|

I've got the crisps and dips packed up....will Fishy pick me up in the coach please?

[bitsnknots]

I haven't a clue CB.  Thing is my dad still thinks that I should meet the thing that he is now married to and I definitely don't want to have anything to do with her.  Another thing is, he's made his bed so let him lie in it.

I've got some biscuits and chocklit.  Sits and waits for fishy.

[kiss*my*pixel]

Oh, golly, Books - that must have been so hard for your Mum. 28 years! My o/h and I have been together for 26 years, and I have just taken it for granted that we will be here till ...... whenever, hand in hand, spraying Ralgex on each other's aches and pains. Hard for you too, to accept that your Dad has someone else - can perfectly understand you not wanting to meet up with her. 😞

Alison, honestly - there will be someone lovely out there for you, although it is hard to believe now. I've had several heartaches (don't really want to share the stories publicly), but thank goodness I did, otherwise I would never have met my loyal, doting, Ralgex-spraying chap now :^O

[kiss*my*pixel]

Popcorn and Gummy sweets added to the list now, too

[ilove2patch]

Don't forget the brandy.:-)

[mygreyangel]

I'm not a regular FHGer, but pop in from time to time.

I couldn't believe it when I saw this thread, it's kind of appropriate to me.

I haven't acted upon my feelings btw, but there are definite positives to me.  It's been partially responsible for my re-evaluating my life and making some huge changes, all of which have been for the better.

It has eased with time and effort, but it's been hard going at times.

Room on the bus?

[chickengrandma-2008]

But your dad has been with her 30 years.  That's a long time to hold a grudge.:O

[bitsnknots]

CG, if you knew that woman like we and quite a few others know her, you'd understand.  Even my father's sisters don't like her.  They did at first but once they found out what she was like, they changed their views.