No - because you shouldn't have refunded.
The correct process is, buyer opens a return request - you provide return details (which may include a prepaid return label), they return, you refund.
Unfortunately, as you have refunded, you've basically said to ebays systems you don't want the goods back.
Aside from the buyer having a change of heart - you won't get that back.
Always think of it the way a bricks and mortar shop does. Would they refund you without you bringing the product back to the store?
