Assuming they're not in the UK they should see the cost via ebay's global shipping on the listing at their end. Just remind them of that, they may be new. You won't know the final charge to them anyway.
No it's an item of clothing. They have all positive feed back on their eBay profile but as a newbie to selling I'm naturally cautious. Thanks for replying.
Its not the fee putting someone off then. Maybe someone who has heard the rumours and expects a fee? All the same, ignore and block. I too think it means ‘person to person’, wanting to trade off eBay.
You say you’re a newbie - do you know how to add someone to your Blocked Buyers List (known here as bbl)?
