After lengthy consultation with seller about shipping item to my country, him getting me the shipping price , him accepting my offer thereafter , payment made for shipping and item( through eBay) , to be told by seller 3 hours later that he has cancelled the purchase through the eBay platform as he has now decided to sell item locally. He says that he has NO intention of posting item. The cancellation request has been with eBay for 3-4 days as “cancellation pending “ , and now changing to “cancel fail “ and for me to lodge a dispute if item ( that will never be posted) is not received by delivery date ( which is 25 days from today) . Seller said he will not post item and I must wait for my refund What do I do when eBay themselves say I must wait for an item( which will never be posted ) - and they are aware of it - to only then lodge a complaint, PLEASE HELP