Proof of age. Neither my husband nor I own a credit card

Neither my husband nor I own a credit card and I want to bid on some cutlery, but as that includes a knife I have been asked to prove my age using a credit card. Is there another way to prove my age? 

Thanks, Liz

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Just got caught out by the Age Verification "We Don't Want You To Buy From Us Shenanigans" So that's it I cant by a power tool that I want So back to Amazon it is then no Troubles there my transaction went straight through no problems ! , Surely in this day and age eBay could come up with a Better Method of trying to Verify My Old Age without a Credit card I have never ever had ! 

 

I agree with protecting the innocents under 18's from risk and danger but Don't Stop the Idiots from buying what we want ! unless that's what eBay want's Dont Buy go elsewere Nothing to be sold Here ! Lets all Laugh at them when they Try to Buy, Stop the Idiots as they never maxed out there credit cards , Maybe that New eBay Credit card wil come in Handy .

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Debit cards are also, colloquially, called "credit" cards so just enter the data and/or photo of your debit card and see how you get on..

 

 

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Years ago, eBay pulled a listing for a small porcelain figurine I was selling because the Turkish soldier represented , a Zouave, was wearing a bladed weapon. If someone whacked you hard with an antique china ornament it could do you serious harm so keep this quiet.

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I suppose we have to devise other names such as "butter separator" or "butter divider". 

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I wondered about that too. Could someone spoof an eBay warning? It would depend whether you saw it when signed in to eBay or it popped up on your phone at random.

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I am ahead of you already. Debit cards are issued to account holders under
18 so it must be a credit card. Ironically, customer support start every
call with "thanks for being a member since 1999" yet can't get their heads
around that this makes me at the very least 25 years old....

They tell me there is nothing wrong their end but transactions keep
failing. Last time I found the same seller on Etsy so bought with no
problem. Planer knives failed on eBay but we're ordered and delivered next
day by Amazon with no age issues. eBay are going to lose loads of business
if they can't sort this out.
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They should accept a govt issued votin card imo

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There should be legislation to regulate which ID can be demanded. Add it to GDPR which regulates how it's processed and kept on record.

 

As more firms seemingly bullying customers and the importance of ID, only legislation would forcibly keep open options for people and particularly prevent discrimination. If you don't have a credit card by choice, as there isn't a legal requirement anywhere to have one, it is discriminatory to require it, particularly since there are perfectly legitimate alternatives (perhaps even better) available such as the government-issued docs listed below.

 

A useful framework could be the one that insurers, banks and solicitors tend to use. Typically they have two categories (often called 'primary' which means photo ID and date of birth, and 'secondary' to prove current name & full address), as policy they state examples for each category, and require one item from each category, sometimes two from primary.

 

These days, as insurers and solicitors (both in personal experience) accept sight of docs via email attachments, so can any firm that uses electronic communication. In my recent experience, councils, phone companies and utilities do the same.

 

Below is just detail, skip if wished. (Most of these I knew from working for banks, solicitors and insurers, but have just googled to double-check and update.) 

 

Most commonly accepted for 'primary' are government-issued photo-docs: current UK/international passport, current UK or EEA photocard driving licence (full or provisional), National identity card (for EU/EEA/Swiss nationals), Biometric Residence Permit (BRP) or Home Office residence permit, Armed Forces ID card or firearms certificate. While not government-issued, a current debit or credit card is often requested or is accepted if offered, but it's a supporting item unless you're applying to, say, open an account with the same firm that issued the card.

 

I see from the eBay discussion boards that, due to recent HMRC requirements, things like National Insurance number may now be required.

 

Most commonly accepted for 'secondary' , recent, in the last 3 months: utility bill (gas, electricity, water), current year's council tax bill, bank/building society statement, mortgage statement, (legal) tenancy agreement, HMRC tax notification or PAYE coding notice, benefit book or letter from the Benefits Agency. Otherwise the organisation can usually make alternative arrangements, indeed banks are required to by the Joint Money Laundering Steering Group e.g. a letter from a hospice/care home manager.

 

Where certified copies are required, they can be certified by (free or guess who usually charges a small fee) a solicitor, bank official, minister of religion, doctor, dentist, councillor etc., presumably somone in a role good standing. My brother-in-law had his done by his pharmacist (implausibly but appropriately named Dr Quack; I've posted about this elsewhere).

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Yes but eBay aren't listening even when they know you are 18+ years old.
Best practice would be to establish date of birth from the outset and then
apply that to all future transactions. That's too simple for eBay.
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You're right, and that would indeed be good practice, one to include in GDPR/legislation.

 

I doubt a firm lets itself officially know you're 18+ years old, even when all commonsense and logic says you are, because proving they should know is hard. That's another reason why legislation's needed to cover all businesses - to prevent them hiding under apparent ignorance, and to standardise, streamline and forcibly make ID (including age) verification fair, transparent, non-discriminatory and predictable. Unless or until we get legislation, where's the Competition & Markets Authority when you need them? The CMA is meant, among other things, to protect people from "unfair trading practices and investigate systemic market problems that harm consumers".

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The eBay system needs looking at. An honest person who looks after their self and finances can buy stuff where as a person with the financial stress of credit can. It's an odd situation.

eBay sort this out please.

 

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