In reality, I think any ebay seller who hasn't processed and sent my order out, is going through something, because they are simply not getting paid. But it can be difficult for some people to maintain this stance when you are simply not contacted and no shipping logistics have happened. Still, the outcome is the same, they don't get paid from my money paid through ebay.
So instead of writing something to them, I simply sent this :

I have gone through some things I wouldn't wish on anyone, recently. So it wouldn't be shocking to easily think a seller might be going through something. I wish one and all, a good day.