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I have recently bought 2 items n they have not arrived. I have opened a case since it was supposed to be delivered 10 days ago. Seller asks me to close case n wait another 20. Advice?
A seller blocked me from bidding on her stuff because I had retracted my bid from two of her items 5 days before the listing ends. Is this normal on Ebay!Can ppl not retract bids a week before, and she gave me a reason that I would change my mind and...