Unfortunately, if the seller claims the item has been sent, you won't be able to cancel.
Ebay rules state that buyers can request a cancellation but sellers can accept or refuse.
If it is a business seller, you will be able to send the item back but you will be liable for the return postage.
"There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn't true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.”
Søren Kierkegaard, Danish philosopher (1813 - 1855)