Pushy demanding seller

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,

I bid on two dresses and won bids.
Seller immediately contacted me regarding combining the shipping fees for both, saving me a couple of pounds - so far, so good!
Then contacted me soon after demanding I pay asap so she can post it to me immediately!!

It is Sunday, no post office would be open and I'm in the middle of cooking for my children.
I found this to be rude and unnesessary, and felt treated like it was assumed I've done something wrong (I haven't)

To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

Am I allowed to cancel my purchase? Or will I be banned from Ebay?
I've never cancelled before

I want to cancel

Thanks in advance for any advice you may have

[red_magpie]

"Demanding?" Are you saying she actually said "I demand that you pay for these dresses asap"? If so, that would be pushy.

From where I see it, this sounds like a good seller who firstly offered to combine the postage, without your even having to ask for this, and secondly let you know that she would post it immediatley on receiving your payment.

In any case, asp doesn't mean you have to stop cooking for your children!

I think you're reading far more into this than the seller intended.

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

She contacted me 7 times in 12 hrs. The last one stated that unless I paid immediately, she would cancel the sale and relist items

She's registered as business seller and accepts returns. So I just cut to the chase (at that point I didn't want to keep something that reminded me of so much disrespect and stress) and just agreed with her to cancel the sale