Pushy demanding seller

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,

I bid on two dresses and won bids.
Seller immediately contacted me regarding combining the shipping fees for both, saving me a couple of pounds - so far, so good!
Then contacted me soon after demanding I pay asap so she can post it to me immediately!!

It is Sunday, no post office would be open and I'm in the middle of cooking for my children.
I found this to be rude and unnesessary, and felt treated like it was assumed I've done something wrong (I haven't)

To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

Am I allowed to cancel my purchase? Or will I be banned from Ebay?
I've never cancelled before

I want to cancel

Thanks in advance for any advice you may have

[corred]

@sunset_and_summerbreeze 

Have these reminders a come from the seller oir were some automated by eBay ??

In the last few weeks I havew won items on a weekend while I was away & received the exact same email from different sellers after 24 hours requesting payment so the seller can send the item........these emails came from EBAY NOT THE SELLER

[tressygirl]

Good Point corred! @corred 

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

No,
Not from ebay.
The seller contacted me 3 times within 2 hrs reminding me to pay
And again today

[corred]

@sunset_and_summerbreeze

eBay automated emails often appear to come from the seller when in fact they are initiated by eBay

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,
7 emailes came from the seller in 12 hrs.
And only 1 email came from ebay after 24 hrs (after I already decided what to do and agreed with her suggestion).
Her last email stated if I didn't pay immediately she would cancel the sale and relist items.
I agreed LOL
It backfired on her

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Yes, her account states registered business seller and that she accepts returns, but the buyer pays return fees.

She contacted me 7 times in 12 hrs, last email stating that if i didn't pay immediately she would cancel the sale and relist items.

I agreed with her! LOL

Why should I pay for harassment? These dresses would always remind me of stress. No thnx!

Never had encountered anything like this with other sellers! Won't buy from her ever again!