06-01-2011 10:21 PM
As it becomes harder to trace ex players, coaches and managers for my Northampton Town book and due to not being able to get hold of phone numbers the majority of knock-knocks I do are complete cold calls to the extent that I don't know 100% wether the occupant is the person I am trying to trace.As I don't start back at work till monday I had arranged an IP signing in Birmingham today and tagged on acouple of knock knocks in the area. After dropping the girls off at school I headed over to Rugeley for my first KK of the day before heading into Birmingham for a 12pm IP. I was hoping to be greeted by Charlie Dutton who was born in 1934 and played 10 times for us during the 56/57 season. As should be expected nobody was in so I went back to the van and wrote out a note.After posting it I went back to the van to make sure I had my route to Birmingham sorted. A minute or so later a car pulled up with a couple in but only the lady got out, she sensibly looked a little wary of me when I told her why I was there only for her to tell me her husband had passed away only a year ago. I felt absolutely awful and couldn't apologise enough, I can't tell you how bad I felt, it was the first time this had happened to me, but Mrs Dutton was an absolute treasure and told me not to worry as well as inviting me in. After getting over my initial embarrassment we spent a memorable 45 minutes of Mrs Dutton showing me her husbands own football memorabilia (not sure if that is the right word) and even persuaded me to take home two photos of his time at the club.The first one is of him (2nd left) on the pitch the day he signed along with Colin Gale (middle) and a player I don't recognise. The manager and former player Dave Smith on the left and trainer Jack jennings, right, have both signed the book.
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The second is a team photo with Charlie 5th from right front row.
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I honestly felt Mrs Dutton enjoyed going through the photos, cuttings and programmes as well as one lovely team photo from 1928 with her father in it displaying the local cup they had won, she certainly did a lot of smiling and gave out the odd giggle. I was sad to tell her I had to go but I had to make sure I got to my Brum appointment on time.
You'll never read this Mrs Dutton but thank you very much for being such a lovely lady.
Due to the evening befores map work I got to the address in Brum with ten minutes to spare. I was there to see Mike Deakin who played 48 times for us during two seasons 59 to 61. I had phoned him the day before and he seemed a little apprehensive so I phoned the front reception at the home where he lives to see if it was ok for me to bring him a half bottle of whisky as a sign of my gratitude. Mike was there waiting for me on my arrival and invited me up to his flat where it was somewhat quiter. Mike has not been well of late and had only recently been given the all clear for now on prostate cancer. We had to take the lift up to the flat as his right knee and ankle were completely shot from his time in the game. Mike was really interested in the book and went through it all page by page to see who he knew or should I say remembered. Unfortunately only one of the say ten players he remembered is still alive which while agreeing that was awful it brought him to the conclusion that he was a very lucky man. Mike had to go at 12.30 to meet his long term partner of 40 years ( they have never in all that time lived together. Probably why it lasted :-D) so we said our goodbyes and went our seperate ways.
By the way, with the size of the grin on his face I think the Whisky was a good idea. Also, take a look at Mikes goals to games ratio for us.
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Finally I drove to the outskits of Solihull and a lovely village to knock on the door of Bob Hatton who played for us during the 68/69 season. I was very lucky to find him in as he was just about to go out to play either squash or badmington. Even at the age of 63 he looked as fit as a fiddle with not a pick on him, he still had his trademark tash though his bushy long hair had long gone (#grashfen fashen Mutley stylee#He still had more hair than me:-D) We chatted for five minutes or so about the Cobblers and the Blues and I made my way back to Nottingham a very happy man.
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Sorry that took some reading, I had to tell you about it as it's just not the same as TTM.
06-01-2011 10:24 PM
Sorry, this is Bob Hattons signing.
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06-01-2011 10:31 PM
Great reading Ralph,sounds like you had a good day overall.
That's the only problem sometimes with trying to get ex players,that sometimes the information is out of date. (Luckily I've never written to anyone who's died!)But Mrs Dutton seemed quite happy to have a chat with you about her husbands career.
Unfortunately living down in Plymouth,there's not many I can knock-knock.
I did Trevor Francis at his parents house once (his dad also gave me a signed Sampdoria clubcard) and the other was Cliff Bastin at his house in Exeter.
06-01-2011 11:06 PM
Superb reading Ralph....I bet Mrs Dutton enjoyed the chat just as much as you did. Fans still remembering her hubby after all these years mate 😄
Sounds like you had a fantastic day..Pleased for you.
06-01-2011 11:14 PM
What an amazing day Ralph. It is clear from your posts how much it all means to you, and I admire that. I miss travelling round the country to watch Watford, and miss the home games. I have not made it to a game since May 2008, but look forward to the day when things are good enough for me to go again. The knockknocks are the icing on the cake for you, and I love reading about the additions to your wonderful book.
06-01-2011 11:21 PM
enjoyed reading that Ralph, what a great day for you and i'm sure it rather delighted Mrs Dutton that Charlie still has the genuine fans out there like yourself thinking about him, even though you weren't to know he'd sadly passed away it's clear she appreciated your time and effort to make the journey 🙂
07-01-2011 12:06 AM
I have always confessed to not being a football fan and in honesty I dont really know who the people you mentioned are at all. Having said that I have to admit I really enjoyed reading your posts, quite inspiring really although I am not quite sure Id have the nerve to knock lol
07-01-2011 5:24 AM
HAVE TO SAY RALPH, I TRULY ENJOYED READING THIS, IT IS GREAT TO HEAR YOUR ENTUSIAISM IN YOUR WONDERFUL BOOK AND HOW MRS DUTTON REALLY APPRECIATED SHARING THE MEMORY'S OF HER LATE HUSBAND WITH A GENUINE FAN, THANK YOU FOR SHARING RALPH A GREAT STORY..
07-01-2011 6:23 AM
A really memorable day for you there Ralph, really enjoyed reading your story. I bet you made Mrs Dutton's year, giving her the chance to reminice about her husband. I hated having to leave Albert Scanlon, as he could have talked about United all day:)
Well done mate, and good luck with others you try:)
07-01-2011 8:14 AM
Superb story and great reading.
07-01-2011 10:25 AM
What a great day you had, albut the sad passing of Charlie Dutton before you got to meet him. Well done to you and that book is fantastic. Keep it up.
07-01-2011 10:57 AM
crackin story that mate thanks for sharing great stuff
07-01-2011 12:08 PM
Fantastic, I enjoyed reading this well done.
07-01-2011 1:30 PM
a great experience for you mate,i am sure too that mrs dutton appreciated your intrest in her husband,probably made her day,great story mate:-)
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What a wonderful group of stories. It sounds like you made Mrs Dutton's day by allowing her to talk about her husband with a true fan. Well done with your continuing quest.
07-01-2011 4:07 PM
That was a lovely story love hearing the knocknock stories wether successful or not ...I'm sure Mrs Dutton wouls have loved the company for the short time you were there...
07-01-2011 4:47 PM
Well done mate it is great to read your storey
07-01-2011 6:27 PM
Really enjoyed reading the story of your day. I can't imagine fans getting the same reception from ex-players in 30 years time!
The closest I've come to your first unfortunate circumstance was receiving a reply to a TTM request to England cricketer Keith Andrew from his wife that said he was too ill to sign anything. It did make me feel embarrassed for troubling them but I guess that Mrs Andrew would know there was no malice intended.
The book must really be a labour of love and looks fantastic.
07-01-2011 11:03 PM
Absoulutely brilliant thankyou for sharing your knock knock stories,long may the continue
08-01-2011 12:38 AM
Thank you very much all.