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I have just been asked by a buyer to cancel his bid 20 mins before the end of the auction Says he can't afford the item . He had placed an automatic bid was placed 6 days ago . What is your veiws on this ?
Buyer has bought and paid in full inc, post for 4 items before I could raise an invoice. All 4 could be packed as 1 item saving on postage . How can I resolve this ?