21-09-2020 9:13 AM
Like all other responders on here I'm sure we would love a monthly pay cheque from eBay.
But like all responders we come here of our own free will to try and help with advice and guidance to other eBay members in our own time.
And in the main members appear to be grateful for the help we give.
But there will always be those who don't appreciate it.
I would say calling your buyers idiots and stupid cow are hardly indicative of a seller providing good customer relations
`AND YES THE BIG TALKERS ON HERE DO WORK FOR eBay!`
Nobody on here `works` for ebay, we are just ebayers like you, who give up time to try and help folk so they don`t lose a fortune, so if everyone is a `big talker`, why the hell are you here!
I'm very sorry, but you brought this on yourself by sending a replacement.
If you do this, you have to trust the buyer to close the case when they receive the replacement. If they don't, then as you haven't refunded the buyer, eBay will enforce a refund and place a defect on your account.
For this reason, it's always best to offer a refund on return. That way, eBay will enable you to send the buyer a prepaid return label (if you want the item back). On its return, they will process the refund through PayPal and you will receive a credit for your selling fee. Your seller performance record is unharmed. The buyer can then buy a replacement item from you, if they wish to do so.
This is best for the buyer too. We often here from buyers who have accepted the offer of a replacement, only to find that the replacement is faulty, or they're kept waiting so long that they've miss eBay's 30 day time limit to claim a refund.
I'm afraid there's nothing you can do about the defect. Your only chance of getting the second refund returned is if the buyer is willing to repay it to you.
@hickoryandco wrote:AND YES THE BIG TALKERS ON HERE DO WORK FOR eBay!
No, they don't. We're all just ordinary ebayers who pop in to help out our fellows when we get a spare moment. Unfortunately (and insultingly), the helpful information and advice we provide is sometimes thrown back in our faces, along with immature comments such as the above when the poster doesn't hear what they expected to hear.
If you don't want to be helped and advised, don't post here. And especially not in the Answer Centre, which is for people who actually have questions, and questions which require urgent answers. Rants should be posted in the Discussion forums.