25-10-2025 7:19 PM
A buyer purchased a new pair of boots from me and opened a case as the heels apparently disintegrated when wearing them. They uploaded one of my photos from the listing but no photos of the damage. I messaged them requesting they send me photos of the damage but have had no response. I have no problem in refunding if they show me what state the boots are in now but if they don't send the photos, what can I do? Thanks
25-10-2025 8:01 PM
@wendybing wrote: I have no problem in refunding if they show me what state the boots are in now but if they don't send the photos, what can I do? Thanks.
Answer ..... Nothing.
Photos of damages, are not mandatory if the buyer opens a case for item not as described, has he done this?
If so it's all automatic, no human contact, you'll need to accept the case and refund within 3 days or send a pre paid label for your item to be returned, only refund when the item is back with you.
You can appeal the eBay decision for a refund, if either you or the buyer ask eBay to step in. This explains how:
https://www.ebay.co.uk/help/selling/managing-returns-refunds/appeal-outcome-case-seller?id=4369
25-10-2025 10:36 PM
25-10-2025 11:33 PM
They say that but the system is more or less automatic and it's unlikely anyone would look at the photos, or if they did they'd still accept the claim.
It's best that you accept it and get them back. If the buyer ends up escalating to ebay they may enforce the refund without return.
Some heels are made of a type of plastic that does literally disintergrate under pressure when worn.
26-10-2025 8:38 AM
26-10-2025 8:42 AM
I think I have phrased my line above... ' photos are not mandatory' incorrectly.
Sorry.
I meant that no photo of any damage will help win a case , as it cannot be proved the actual item in question is being photographed.
Yes, you do have to submit a photo in a returns case, but to be honest if you photographed a table leg, that would be sufficient, photos are not looked at , or judged in any way for a result in the case.
26-10-2025 8:54 AM
26-10-2025 9:00 AM
I'm afraid you're fighting a lost cause.
The overwhelming number of return cases are automatically found in the buyer's favour. eBay routinely takes the buyer's word against the seller's. They might defer a decison until the buyer uploads a photo, but it's unlikely to make any difference.
Good luck anyway, but don't try to delay things yourself while awaiting a photo. If you don't send the buyer a prepaid return label they can escalate the case for eBay to step in. eBay will almost certainly then enforce a refund without requiring the item to be returned, and penalise you with an account defect.
The clue is in the word: it's buyer protection. eBay wants buyers to have a good buying experience and feel confident that eBay will protect them if they don't. Especially now they're actually paying for it.
26-10-2025 9:02 AM
That's a very good point. When you messaged the buyer did you say that photos of the damage would help you in deciding whether to simply refund?
By the way we do sometimes advise buyers who can't take a photo for some reason to do a cut and paste using a computer. They need to register something as a photo to enable them to move forward with the claim.
26-10-2025 9:04 AM
@wendybing wrote:
But it would help a seller to decide whether to just refund or accept a return. If there is genuine damage, why would I want them back, especially as I pay for the privilege. By not providing a photo, I will ask for a return which inconveniences the buyer. I can only assume they (hopefully) don't fit or they are a scammer
Thank you for the replies.
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If a buyer opens a case for item not as described you must accept and refund , but I do understand your point if it's damaged beyond repair then no point paying for a return postage, and just refund with no return.
Personally, with the information provided ' heels disintegrated' looks like you would not be able to resell them, perhaps then just to refund?
It is frustrating I do understand, and no easy 100% answer here as to whether pay for the return or not, one thing for sure the buyer has to be refunded.
26-10-2025 9:32 AM
26-10-2025 9:36 AM
Heels, soles from shoes do disintegrate/ fall apart after time, perhaps that's what's happened here.
Paying for the return of the item, you may be left with a pair of shoes no good to wear again or to sell again.
Were they expensive? If not, only asking as it may just then be better to refund without a return?
26-10-2025 9:37 AM
26-10-2025 9:57 AM
Aaah so they are described the ' heel' part , the sole has come away perhaps at the back of the shoe ?
26-10-2025 10:36 AM
@wendybing wrote:
A buyer purchased a new pair of boots from me and opened a case as the heels apparently disintegrated when wearing them. They uploaded one of my photos from the listing but no photos of the damage.
Buyers have to upload a photo, but they may be one of the older demographic who don't have a camera phone. In this case we advise them to add the original listing photo.