Pushy demanding seller

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,

I bid on two dresses and won bids.
Seller immediately contacted me regarding combining the shipping fees for both, saving me a couple of pounds - so far, so good!
Then contacted me soon after demanding I pay asap so she can post it to me immediately!!

It is Sunday, no post office would be open and I'm in the middle of cooking for my children.
I found this to be rude and unnesessary, and felt treated like it was assumed I've done something wrong (I haven't)

To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

Am I allowed to cancel my purchase? Or will I be banned from Ebay?
I've never cancelled before

I want to cancel

Thanks in advance for any advice you may have

[arkwebus]

It's pretty unlikely that a business seller would use an auction to sell.

As described many Post Offices are open at very odd hours; it's commendable that your seller is keen to despatch.  Our Post Office is open 0600 to 2300 seven days a week!

Clearly it's not 1130pm when that happened or [hopefully] you will not be cooking for your children

@sunset_and_summerbreeze 

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

She contacted me 7 times in 12 hrs! One of those times I was cooking for my children who have autism. With kids like that its more than just cooking because they get involved, things get thrown, spilt, you've got to pay attention 100 %!
My phone was pinging with msgs which I didn't check till later obviously
Cooking VERY SPECIFIC THINGS then feeding children with autism is an obstacle course that takes hours.

There's no way I could have dropped everything and pulled out laptop to log in to PayPal etc...
They wouldn't let me do anything. I leave things like that till they are sound asleep. By which time she sent me these 7 emails, last one demanding that unless I paid immediately, she would cancwl the sale and rwlist them and I was **bleep** off at that point and just agreed with her.

Ebay states items sgould be paid within 48 hrs
People work, (yes, I work too, when they are at school), people are busy. If they can pay immediately they do. But sometines, they can't. It is unreasonable and rude to harass them. That implies deliberate intent at wrong doing and that's a terrible way to treat people.
Just like you accused me of lying without knowing anything whatsoever about the situation

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Yup, she's a registered seller, all her items are on auctions