Pushy demanding seller

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,

I bid on two dresses and won bids.
Seller immediately contacted me regarding combining the shipping fees for both, saving me a couple of pounds - so far, so good!
Then contacted me soon after demanding I pay asap so she can post it to me immediately!!

It is Sunday, no post office would be open and I'm in the middle of cooking for my children.
I found this to be rude and unnesessary, and felt treated like it was assumed I've done something wrong (I haven't)

To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

Am I allowed to cancel my purchase? Or will I be banned from Ebay?
I've never cancelled before

I want to cancel

Thanks in advance for any advice you may have

[ruby*tuesday · Accepted solution]

Sorry you feel harassed, paying within a couple of days is quite acceptable. Unfortunately Buyers can't Cancel, you can ask the Seller to Cancel your Purchases. They are only obliged to if they are a Business Seller. If you don't Pay they can open an Unpaid Item Case against you. You would end up with an Unpaid Item Strike on your Account. 2 of those and you would find it very difficult to buy on here as Sellers can Block Buyers who have 2 or more Unpaid Item Strikes.

[sunset_and_summerbreeze · Accepted solution]

Thank you for your answer. I don't know if she is a business seller. I will find out.
Once again, thank you!

[ruby*tuesday · Accepted solution]

If it is the Vintage Company you bought from, they are a Business. Click on their ID for details.

[sunset_and_summerbreeze · Accepted solution]

It has been resolved, thank you
The seller contwcted me 7 times in 12 hrs, last message stating that if I didn't pay immediately she would cancel the sale and relist items. I jumped at the chance and agreed to her canceling and relisting.
She did.
But then sent me an hour later saying she's sorry "I felt this way" even though I didn't write her anything about how I felt, and said she had too many timewasters and always chased up after 36 hrs (she began chasing up after 2 hrs and cancelled the sale after 18 hrs, so that was a lie)

Lucky, you told me to check if it's a business seller and that I actually could cancel, because I'd be otherwise too worried about breaking the rules and would be bullied into buying something I bid for in haste and didn't really want!
(Because I got outbid on everything else lol)
Rookie mistake. Ebay is exciting to a newbie.
Never again!