Pushy demanding seller

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,

I bid on two dresses and won bids.
Seller immediately contacted me regarding combining the shipping fees for both, saving me a couple of pounds - so far, so good!
Then contacted me soon after demanding I pay asap so she can post it to me immediately!!

It is Sunday, no post office would be open and I'm in the middle of cooking for my children.
I found this to be rude and unnesessary, and felt treated like it was assumed I've done something wrong (I haven't)

To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

Am I allowed to cancel my purchase? Or will I be banned from Ebay?
I've never cancelled before

I want to cancel

Thanks in advance for any advice you may have

[*vyolla*]

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@sunset_and_summerbreeze wrote:


To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

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How many times did she message you demanding payment?

You've used terms such as 'demanding', 'rude' and 'pushy' so I'm presuming that you're being snowballed with messages featuring unpleasant language.

Your seller has kindly gone the extra mile to save you some money and has just just asked for payment so that they can get the package out to you, then I wouldn't say that is 'pushy' or 'rude', just being kind. And getting a slap in the face for it. Nice. 

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

She contacted me 7 times in 12 hrs

[*vyolla*]

Ha, well I'd say that's well over the top!