Pushy demanding seller

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Hi,

I bid on two dresses and won bids.
Seller immediately contacted me regarding combining the shipping fees for both, saving me a couple of pounds - so far, so good!
Then contacted me soon after demanding I pay asap so she can post it to me immediately!!

It is Sunday, no post office would be open and I'm in the middle of cooking for my children.
I found this to be rude and unnesessary, and felt treated like it was assumed I've done something wrong (I haven't)

To be honest, I feel harassed and don't want to buy these dresses from her any more.
I always pay within 24 hrs and sellers NEVER repeatedly contacted me with demands before!

Am I allowed to cancel my purchase? Or will I be banned from Ebay?
I've never cancelled before

I want to cancel

Thanks in advance for any advice you may have

[captain*obvious]

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@sunset_and_summerbreeze wrote:

It is Sunday, no post office would be open

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When I was selling my personal items I only went to the post office on Sundays due to work and family commitments.

A LOT of post offices within garages, supermarkets and convenience stores are open on Sundays although the items don't actually get collected until Monday.

I think you're being a bit over sensitive.

[sunset_and_summerbreeze]

Post offices open at 11.30 pm on a Sunday???
She contacted me again at that time
(And first time, at 9 pm)
A bit eager isn't it?
To contact 3 times, all within a couple of hrs of bid finishing?

She's registered as a business seller and accepts returns within 14 days, so I'm entitled to ask to cancel the order - phew!

Harassing a customer is bad customer service!
So no, I'm not being "a bit sensitive"

I'm paying money for a product, not to be made to feel bad. To the point that I'm here at 5 am, typing about this **bleep** because it had upset me.

There is a reason stores with good customer service attract more sales in the real world. Online experience shouldn't be any different.
But thanks for your opinion!
Have a nice day!