That is an awful lot of feedback for both parties over £3.79.
If you are unhappy with the item, you are covered by the ebay MBG - although it is usual to deploy this before leaving feedback. You can still use it though and the seller will be forced to refund - regardless of who damaged the item, unfortunately.
If your question is indeed that you are offended, then sorry but the MBG does not cover hurt feelings.
