01-02-2021 8:07 PM
You have my sympathies, but unfortunately all nad cases are completely automated so ebay will issue the refund unless you do it voluntarily.
All I can suggest is you wait till you get the generator back, and if it is damaged as you suspect, speak to ebay customer service before refunding and explain clearly and calmly what has happened. If you have messages in your inbox proving the mistake is the buyer's, so much the better, ebay can read them. so keep all messages.
Explain that the item has been damaged by the buyer and is no longer in the same condition it was received, so, under ebay's own rules, does not merit a full refund.
See what they say.
It is SO frustrating that you omit to give any of the information we need to advise you.
WHEN did the sale take place, HOW did the buyer pay, and, as it was listed for collection, did they collect it in person or send a courier?
As regards when, you sold two generators in October and November, so if it's either of these it will now be too late for the buyer to open a eBay money back guarantee case - but if he's already opened one, we need to know when, and whether he has escalated it for eBay to step in. EBay only gives sellers three business days to reply, so it's vital to provide essential factual information when asking advice.
If you would edit your question to provide more information we could give you a much more complete answer. To do this, go to "options" beside your question, and click on edit to edit it.