Cancelling an order after 30 days

[classicnuts2007]

We sold an item and the buyer asked us to hold off sending it until he was sure it was the correct item.  Now, nearly 2 months later, he wants to cancel the order.  How do I deal with this as I can't just press the 'cancel order' button if it's more than 30 days old?

[redwick1]

Its too late on ebay to cancel and they are too late to open any dispute as they have 30 days from the latest estiated day of delivery

It is is over 60 days then they are too late to leave feedback too

Just go to paypal and refund.

Next time I would not wait so long unless it is a collection item