Botty Cream Please...........

[mandymoosie]

Well I've just had my first slap, thanks whoever arranged that for me, I feel so much better now 😞

I suppose this will get me another one....................not that bothered to be honest.

This used to be such a fun place to be, but now, I'm seriously having second thoughts and think that I might be disappearing the same way that others have 😞

[duck_a_lorange]

There may be bots trawling threads for banned words, too.

I got a slap last year.

I used a short anglo-saxon noun to denote the substance that was ejected from my kitchen gully and decorated my kitchen wall when I had to have my drains jetted last December.  If I hadn't been standing on the right side of the (open) kitchen door I would have been decorated too. I wasn't swearing, it was a factual description, if rather vulgar.  I was most upset at the time, and felt so strongly that no other word would do that I mis-spelled it, hoping it would pass the bots. It didn't.

(Of course, if some unfeeling person reported it, here is an invaluable piece of advice - never flush kitchen paper down the toilet. Following this advice may help stave off karma....)

[kiss*my*pixel]

what? all at once:O for just this thread??:O

can you complain about it?? seems a little unjustified to me

Yep - just this thread, all in the space of about half an hour or so! Nothing I said was nasty, profane, vulgar or anything else slightly mean. Just someone seems to have taken exception to an opinion. As usual :^O

I have appealed them all, watch this space, as they say . . . . .

[ilove2patch]

I remember that Duck. I confess to having a little giggle.:8}

[mitzigirl_123]

Whoa!  What is going on?  😮

This used to be a really friendly, informative and outward going forum of which I have learned many things either not experienced or yet to be, it was the type of forum that was a much needed pick me up tonic where I relished in reading quick fire humour and witty one liners to serious and not so serious problems.

Someone somewhere has an ulterior motive which is dragging everyone down and is instigating all of this sudden unnecessary attraction - a "ring leader" who quite possibly is acting behind the scenes creating something out of nothing!

My advice to all is to speak honestly and openly - as yourselves - and not be drawn into, or allow yourselves to be easily led by others whose intentions are nothing more than to gain favour or recognition for themselves.

'Tis a sad day to witness the FHG forum resorting to nothing more than a back stabbing, paranoid mud slinging fight where everyone is suspicious of each other.

It is my experience that those who speak the loudest are the ones who really have nothing much to say and lead the lambs to the slaughter!

C'mon FHG ladies (and lads) be nice, be kind and just be yourselves and not how you think others want you to be!

My post is not aimed at any one person and hopefully my words will not offend or upset anyone 😉

[lurkingisover]

Oh Captain, can't you see or work out who it was?  Let's just say they are away on a little holiday at the moment.  Mentioning no names on here but the person who started all this was I think, about the only person who saw my first post on the bird topic.  However, they were quick to say it was an attack.  They then sat back and watched the whole thing develop into a witch hunt. That's just my view of what happened.

If I can any more PM's from this person then I will report them (just so you know).

[ilove2patch]

They are having a quiet day & looking for something to do! :^O

[kiss*my*pixel]

:^O

I'm probably not long for this world, so will have a quick flurry of posts, while I still can . . .

[ilove2patch]

Despite all the nonsense FHG is a good place to be.:-) 

[captainbovine]

I agree Maggie:-)

[cookiecookuk]

a agree to.where else can you eat choklitt and wine .all the time.:-D

[ilove2patch]

I have just eaten a Cadbury Flake.:-D The wine isn't all gone yet either.:^O

[bitsnknots]

You're right.  I love being on here.  Just having a cup of hot chocklit.  Does anybody want some?

😛

[cookiecookuk]

just opened a nice bottle of red to go with my spag bol.so will leave the hot chocolate until i go to bed.:-)

[morgana-le-fickers]

FHG is going to go the same way that the RT

Hopefully not OP, though as to you leaving or not, only you can decide that.

Forums go down the pan for many reasons, but the regulars on RT have had a large part to play in their own decline.I would be wary of some of those same posters who wrecked their own board, acting like some matron dispensing advice when they are far from blameless themselves.

[kiss*my*pixel]

And there I go again .......................Waaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!!!!!

Five slaps on one thread  -  is that a record? Must be   😛

[morgana-le-fickers]

Beats her regular anti-perspirent no doubt.

What were you all saying about cliques? :^O

[ilove2patch]

You are mistaking cliques for friendship. We are friends in here.:-D

[bitsnknots]

Night night.  Hope that you have a good nights sleep.

:-x

[mandymoosie]

Well, well, well,

I'm so glad this thread went up, it has been most educational for me so thank you for that 🙂

To the peeps who keep saying "there's no clique, we are friends here" sorry but I don't believe that rubbish for a moment, and if that statement is true, then I wouldn't want to be one of your friends..........is this how you really treat your friends????

Maggie I know that my post was reported, it was not a pink at all, my email from ebay started with "it has been brought to our attention" so what do you think that's saying then?? it's saying it was reported to them, so yes, regardless of what you or anyone else says for that matter, someone on here reported it and I have my own ideas as to who did.

Mitzi you are quite right in everything you have said, and I love you view on it all.

Someone in here is a "ring leader" and I have my own thoughts on who that is too, they must lead such a sad life that they have nothing better to do than cause trouble and stir everything up, very sad 😞

To be honest, I feel like I've had the total mick taken out of me, which I don't find a nice feeling at all, I really did think and believe that I was making some lovely friends here, now that thought has been shattered into a million pieces because I trust no one, and that is not how I base friendships on.

I've shown this thread to "real friend" of mine, who says they can't really believe how some people have turned tables on me, for absolutely no reason whatsoever.

I would be most grateful for someone to please let me know, not in a PM either, have the courage of your convictions and tell me on here please, exactly what you think I've done wrong, because I'm truly baffled. I think it just boils down to whether your face happens to fit or not, and quite apparently, mine doesn't

I am not a sheep, I will not follow a few, I am my own person thank you very much, I can make my own decisions and face them on my own, without having some sort of childish pack backing me up along the way X-(

And can people, if you're going to reply, please read and stick to what is being said and not keep reading what you want to read and making silly statements, it makes you look daft.

If you are "friends" here, you're not the sort that I want in my life, thank you very much, I have "real" friends who wouldn't dream of acting like this and who I know accept me for who I am as I do them.

The one thing I wish is that I never came out from lurking..........no wonder it took me a year to take that big step and now to make matters even worse, I have only found out what I was suspicious of in the first place and to my peril.

And I will say this, whether anyone likes it or not, you have been successful in making me feel extremely unwell today, yes I have physical health problems too, and no I don't discuss them on here, but I have. Do you think you're so clever now???

You all need to think before you post, as has already been said, their are "real people" sitting behind those computer screens, yes real people just like you, with feelings. As I tell people on the forum that I'm an administrator of, "IF YOU'VE GOT NOTHING NICE TO SAY, THEN PLEASE DON'T SAY ANYTHING"!!!!

Cyber bullying is what I call this, in every sense of the word and I will tell you all upfront now, as I don't squirm around doing things behind peoples backs, I will tell you what I do as I'm strong enough to do that, I shall be writing to ebay and bringing my worries about this forum to their attention, the reason I shall be doing that, is to prevent anyone else being hurt at the hands of the "clique" here, I care for people and I love people, I don't go around deliberately hurting and upsetting people, I can't think of anything more nasty and vicious X-(

So yes you can now all go ahead, take the mick, have a laugh at others expense, act like nothing more than a bunch of playground children and be happy in what you do.

PS Thank you so much to the 2 people who have sent my very nice and supportive messages, you know who you are :-x I will keep in touch with the "friends" that I have made here and I'm very grateful that I, at least, found them and now have them in my life :-x

Such a sad day, unbelievable just isn't the word X-( 😞 :_|

[lurkingisover]

Moosie, you were the one who gave me a heartfelt apology on here and I thank you for that.  I seem to have missed what has gone on tonight but maybe it's like something that happened to me the other night?

Difference is, I could cope with it.  I realise this is cyberland and to me, they were just words on the screen, not posted by my real friends.  I've always said the truth comes out and maybe it has?  I can understand people sticking up for their friends on here but not to act like bullies with childish name calling. Now maybe you can all see why I lurk....hence the ID name.  I just don't get involved unless I really need to speak up, otherwise I'm just following the sheep and that's not right.

Do hope you are ok Moosie.