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i have been a good customer of ebays for 20 years they are telling me to give them my Bank account details I will never do this. They now tell me they will start removing my items soon bye bye ebay. there are plenty of other places to sell.
I have a buyer who has overpaid shipping costs by approximately £50 I want to refund him via PayPal but if I do that eBay will still charge me 10% on my shipping costs how do I refund him and get my shipping costs back from from eBaymany thanks in ad...