We all know charging fees on postage is simply wrong, but it's eBay's
site so eBay's rules you will have to put your postage up by 10% to
cover the fees (& don't forget the bit for PayPal as well)
Most people put 2 days now unless you sending tracked so you can upload
the tracking number, I have stopped selling outside the UK now, 9 weeks
to Russia & 6 weeks to France !,