06-06-2020 4:14 PM - edited 06-06-2020 6:15 PM
thanks for your help, you have a great community here. Good luck
Whether you offer free shipping or whether you charge the buyer for shipping makes no difference - you have to refund buyers in full, and that includes the original shipping charge they paid. That is the law.
In any case, you don't have a legal leg to stand on. You're trading illegally (by not being registered as a business seller), and consumer law states that a buyer can return an item to an illegally-trading seller for any reason at all, and in any condition at all, for up to 1 full year and 30 days, and the trader has to pay their return costs too. The law doesn't reward those who break it.
Anyone who makes, grows, refurbishes, or buys in (new or used) items to sell, is a business and must be registered as such. Not only an Ebay requirement but the law. Note that there is no such thing as a 'hobby seller' in this country, and how much or how little you sell or make is totally irrelevant. Private accounts are ONLY for those selling off their old no-longer-wanted possessions from wardrobe and attic. That clearly isn't you. For confirmation, go to Ebay's Seller Centre (link at foot of any page). For full information, go to the government's website.
So I would advise you to upgrade your account from private to business (takes seconds) as a matter of urgency, before you find yourself in big trouble with Ebay and Trading Standards. Most buyers are savvy these days, and one or more of your buyers may already have reported you.
Unforunetly this is more common than you think espeshially in clothing.
Person buys item of clothing uses it once for a party, night out etc then chanes their mind and returns the item sometime in a worse state than what it was sent them.
Either way as mentioned it will be worth registering as a busisness seller & unfortuently buysers can retuen anything for any reason if your going to be buying & to sell them on for a proffit.
you are trading on a private account thereby denying your buyers they legal rights,
ebay won't remove the feedback as it doesn't break any rules,
you don't have a 'shop' on ebay, so stating they are banned from shopping in your shop just looks silly