The seller is being untruthful as they could send you a partial refund to cover the cost of the Royal Mail 'fine'.
Unfortunately, Ebay don't get involved in disputes about postage cost and there is no way to force the seller to refund you.
"There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn't true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.”
Søren Kierkegaard, Danish philosopher (1813 - 1855)