Seller ignored request to withdraw bid

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Seller ignored request  to withdraw mistaken bid made on my behalf by my husband, even though I subsequently made a bid on the correct item with same buyer.  I wrot at the end of Auction to say again it was a mistake, and even though I had now won the item, I did not want it.  Still Seller  ignored me.   I wrote again a few days later, Still no reply.  I then had Unpaid item lodged against me.  I wrote again giving all the details again, and saying, If I did not hear, I wiould contact eBay and give them the details of what had occured,  This time I had an instant reply saying not worry it finishes in a few days.  I wrote back saying I did not want a Non Payment Mark against my name. - Seller has ignored yet again.  I guess he/she wanted to keep the error bids inplace because it ment for them more money, and they could n't care less about me.  I'm in my 70 and my huband is 75yrs old. (We care very much about our reputation, even though it seems others do not bother about Customers - I've purchased Three items from him recently), but don't think I shall do so again..........What is the aopinion of the community????? 

                                                                           Joy