Bumped into an old boyfriend today

[tintinthegingertomcat]

So...........today I was feeling a little cold at home so decided to drive down to my local Morrisons to warm up, do a bit of shopping and have a cup of tea at the same time.

I was walking through their restaurant with my cup of tea when who should I see but my first ever boyfriend from 1979.

He had just done his shopping and was having a cuppa and a doughnut before he went home to do the evening meal so we sat and had a lovely catchup. We were chatting away for over an hour.

After we parted and I was shopping, I bumped into so many people I knew that what was only going to be a quick shopping trip turned into a three hour outing.

So strange as normally when I go down Morrisons I never meet anyone I know.

Do you still get on with your ex's?

This one was my boyfriend from 1979 to 1981, I am also friends on facebook with my ex husband and see my son's dad on a weekly basis (only when I take my son over to see him) and my last ex is the one whom I have Sunday lunch with each week.

[merc1_clocks]

 Gord tintin...you are lovely...my exs are just that for a reason

[stan3502]

Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I have no ex's.

Met my first husband at school and after he died although I had a couple of dates there was no significant other till Mr S came along and he is still here.

[bitsnknots]

Sorry to read that Stan about your first husband. 

My ex's are just that as well.  One lives about 13 miles away from me and the other only lives around 4 miles away and I never see either.

[stan3502]

That's ok books for  a long time on here I didn't really tell peeps about him but he was my first boyfriend and we married a week after my 16th birthday and had 3 wonderful children together sadly he never lived to meet his youngest but I know h would be so proud of how each of them has turned out

[petitecalicocat]

Its good if you can part on good terms even if only for the childrens sakes 🙂

I dont have any ex's , there wasnt anyone that special before i met my hubby.     We were married in 1973 & have recently celebrated  our Ruby anniversary .

[rose2008-2008]

Some i lost touch with anyway,,, a few i would still be friendly too,,,, the last one im still not quite sure wether he will come back yet after he has a little sulk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Some and some i think with me.

[tintinthegingertomcat]

Thankfully, for me, I have always parted on good terms.

Even when my ex and I broke up and there was my son involved we did not involve Solicitors as we came to all arrangements concerning maintenance and access in an adult fashion. Didn't want the CSA involved. I worked in a law office and he worked at the County Court so we knew what to do.

As I worked in family law I even did my own divorce - saving hundreds of pounds into the bargain.

[twishy123]

Stan that's a bit like me.........

Was engaged to my childhood sweetheart but lost him in an accident and then nobody else until I met OH some years later....

Don't think I'll 'meet' anyone else now....I'll stick to me choklit 

[bitsnknots]

You can't argue with chocklit can you Twishy?

[merc1_clocks]

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@bitsnknots wrote:

You can't argue with chocklit can you Twishy?

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 Chris..twishy would NEVER argue with choklit

[ed_blackadder_1]

only have 2 exs, one was from when I was 18 and the other from when I was 24, wasn't really interested untill I met OH at 26, I was far too busy going on holiday and enjoying myself to bother with boys.

[fishpieface]

I haven't any ex's, I have been married to my first and only ever boyfriend for

31 years.

[wizilizi]

I don't have any exes either - only went out on one or two dates & wasn't sorry they didn't develop 

OH & I met at 19, & have stayed married since 1980 (just trump you Fishie!!)  through some tough stuff

It is a miracle, isn't it?

Now we are regaining our home, & it seems our sanity, as the resultant 4 children seem to be mostly away now