29-12-2022 5:40 PM
Neither my husband nor I own a credit card and I want to bid on some cutlery, but as that includes a knife I have been asked to prove my age using a credit card. Is there another way to prove my age?
Thanks, Liz
08-06-2025 10:28 AM
There are a couple of issues with Am Ex. Firstly not all their cards are credit cards although if a charge card you still need to be 18 to have one.
however regarding age verification I can completely understand why eBay don’t allow them For this purpose. Amex allow parents to put children of the age of 13 and above on to accounts. In order they can build a credit score (parents obviously pay but having minors as authorised users allows them still to buy knives etc) I wouldn’t be surprised if this the same issue with some master card providers.
11-06-2025 7:34 AM
There is lots of other online buying platforms that we can use, no issues. Sellers will soon find that it’s best to list elsewhere. Amazon UK has no issues at all so not only will ebay loose out to other platforms with this woke/silly/*bleep* stipulation but it actually moves users away from their platform entirely. I’ve been an ebay buyer & occasional seller for 26 years, I bought multiple items weekly ….. now I never bother and use other platforms, ebay is a place I take a look at when I cannot get the item on Amazon UK or elsewhere. Ebay’s loss, but who cares ? Go woke, go broke 😂
11-06-2025 7:54 AM
For your own reference - the term woke doesn't apply to every situation.
11-06-2025 8:27 AM - edited 11-06-2025 8:28 AM
I would say not a solicitor for certification unless absolutely necessary. One recently tried to charge us £25 per signature (per page).........12 separate months Bank statements so that would have been 12 x £25 !!
Money laundering legislation has really done our heads in lately 😞
It appears that the smaller the mortgage the more paranoid financial institutions are.
11-06-2025 8:55 AM
'Go woke, go broke'
'ebay loose out to other platforms with this woke/silly/*bleep* stipulation '
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Sorry? Am I missing something here?
Ebay have chosen a silly and inflexible way of proving age, certainly. But why is that 'woke'?
Is that just the new fashionable epithet for something you think is stupid?
11-06-2025 9:13 AM
Might be best you go for a wee lie down in a dark room 😂 😂
Keep calm 😡 and carry on.... 😂
11-06-2025 9:31 AM
Yes, lots of certification options, some free. Unfortunately most think only of a solicitor. It's like going to a restaurant and automatically choosing the most expensive item on the menu.
Also, you got unlucky with your solicitor. If you think they've been very unfair/greedy, ask for a part-refund unless too long ago. If they refuse and you're prepared to put in time and effort then say you'll contact the Law Society (they might then part-refund). I don't know today's procedure in detail, but contacting the Law Society involves a small non-refundable fee and submitting paper evidence - details probably on their website. That the solicitors advertised their fees and you agreed in advance to pay could count against you but won't necessarily do so. I've reported a solicitors to the Law Society so I speak from a little experience*.
Acting as an Attorney (three times) I had to get bank statements certified, but I didn't use a solicitor, nor even a free certifying option. I sent photocopies, with a covering letter saying they were photocopies and if they wanted certified copies to send me a cheque for £amount to cover it, or apply direct to my solicitor and to pay him direct, or they could contact the bank at their own expense; all several recipients accepted the photocopies without query and none chose those options. With the Lasting Power of Attorney document that eventually went to 100+ organisations, I got the solicitor to certify a small number (yes it was expensive) as certain organisations accept (or actually just say they accept) only original certified copies; then I sent out the photocopies, saying they were photocopies of a certified copy; I also sent them out redacted (and said so) as certain pieces of info in an LPA are gifts to ID-thieves. There's often no need to pay a solicitor or to pay anyone.
* here's info, skip as wished:
The one and only time I reported a firm of solicitors to the Law Society was. on being unwillingly elected to the volunteer board of my residents association, when I noticed the solicitors had taken my residents association's case to the High Court where only (expensive) barristers are allowed audience = you must hire a barrister, as the solicitors had mistakenly included the VAT in the sum, yet the ex-VAT sum could be dealt with in a lower court (less expensive). My predecessor had allowed the case, in monetary terms, to start exceeding the sum contested so I had to act. The Law Society ordered the solicitors to refund us all £Ks fees except £100 + VAT for the initial interview. I sacked the solicitors. I negotiated with the other party's solicitors until we came to a mutually unsatisfactory agreement, while both knowing the court option remained.
11-06-2025 9:32 AM
If you can say "Live, Laugh, Love" I'll have a bingo.
14-06-2025 1:51 PM - edited 14-06-2025 1:51 PM
absolutely.
Its normally a stupid ill-thought-out policy by senior management or higher.
14-06-2025 1:53 PM
I had the exact same response form customer services. no use whatsoever those guys