seller cancelled my order

[135flyfishing]

I bidder on a ps4 headset and won the item , I went to pay by PayPal in less than 5 mins of winning. The payment would not go through so I contacted the seller to let them know they did reply to me saying they were having trouble at there end and they hoped to get it sorted in a few days. This is fine with me as things do go wrong and we all have to understand this happens. A couple days later I get an email from eBay saying my order was cancelled and the reason was myself the buyer asked to cancel the order this was not the case and eBay should ask me first or at least have a box to tick if seller is having problems. I don't think it is fair to blame the other party to cancel orders and hope this does not reflect on the party who was willing to fulfill there side of the transaction, this should not look bad for there feedback or profile