Hi, I wondered if I can ask for your help? In short I sold a item for a friend on eBay, the buyer wants to return the item, they live locally and want to hand deliver it (it's a iMac). I have already taken the money for the sale from my PayPal. So if she pays him in cash or bank transfer can I just show it as item refunded and will I loose the eBay and PayPal fees?? Thanks