Seller said remove item not arrived request then they will send

Hi all ,

I purchased a Dewalt angle grinder on the 15th Feb and the expected delivery was 28th Feb .

Ive let ebay know that it hasn't arrived and the tracking says delayed .

The seller has messaged me and asked me to remove my 'item not arrived request' and then they will send the item or they will send  me a refund if I want .

I still want the item . 

What should i do ? 

Thanks