Another sufferer, since 2002 I have been on Citalopram (messed up sleep patterns ) Fluoxetine ( caused muscle spasms and cramps ), Mitazapine ( caused suicidal thoughts ) and  Sertaline ( back to the muscle spasms ).

Not taking anything at the moment and doing ok, Streety you may not want your child to be responsible for your wellbeing but kids will know when a parent isn't doing so well. My 2 are a little younger but always know when I am starting to spiral down. If you are concerned about your son contact your local branch of Young Carers.

My 2 have started going to a session every 2 weeks but they also do short residential trips and days out. Being with other kids who share experiences helps them. My oldest didn't realise that one of the boys in her class is also a young carer. 

As much as I dislike the fact my girls have to take more responsibility than their friends I am really proud of them for doing so. Even though they are hard work and the eldest has her own issues which make her behaviour challenging at times when the black dog is nipping at my heels they know.