Nope was using the stamps RM sent for delays. The buyer never sent a message, after I asked him to remove the feedback and perhaps get in touch with me in future first before pre maturely leaving negative feedback he then got the hump with a "do not tell me what to do" reply and shortly after that he made the claim. After all he knew now there is nothing a seller using stamps to post large letters can do to say it arrived. For me its the principle, you know people do it a lot and its quiet likely he s doing it out of spite because he didn t like it when I asked him to remove the feedback yet the fact that EBAY supports this is unacceptable. I will get my money back its not difficult to sell or buy on accounts and exploit loop holes such as the one mentioned above or I can just add the loss to th same listing and increasing the price of the item by 20% to cover the losses its perfectly legit to rip future customers off so no loss to me. 

The fact that I give ebay the money and create its market and then ebay does not support me is enough of a reason not even participate on this platform destroy its membership. They're stealing money of people officially the very least they could do is make your life a little bit easier when they're doing this. They don't so I don't need to help them yet I much rather prefer the money stays on this side of the pond for our people.