If you knew I had a private account, what was the point of your post?

For most buyers, SD is better. For most sellers, it really isn't much of a hassle. Yes, there are situations where it still doesn't work acceptably, and there are situations where a little creative thinking in required on the part of sellers. However, I reiterate, it wasn't brought in for sellers' benefit; it was brought in mainly to boost eBay's profits, with the side-effect that it benefits buyers. People continuing to whine that they should be able to do it their own way are just living in cloud cuckoo land.