I've read ALL the suggestions made.

I too am a 'Charity Begins at Home' person, BUT this Tsunami does change things.
These people have lost EVERYTHING - just try to imagine that for a moment, then add the thought of being a child and losing your family as well!
If the tragedy happened here in the UK would we not hope that Ebayers in the Far East would consider sending donatings to us?

I'd prefer a raffle at £1 per ticket (I would/could not pay £3 for one) then, if the raffle were imminent I'd be happy if it all went to Asia.
Alternatively split the raffle into 4 (England, Ireland, Scotland & Wales) and let the winning bidder choose where it goes. That way there is hopefully more chance it will go to a smaller local charity(s) and bidders may feel more inclined to spend more.

Wishing you all the best for 2005.