OMG you two remarkable ladies are so lucky to be here to tell the tale .   Women are certainly the stronger sex most men would never cope with what some women have to deal with.   Plus a good sense of humour is vital to survive some things life throws at us  

Back to bras ,  i had a drawer full of uncomfortable bras so went to get measured  & found i'd been wearing the wrong size most of my life .    I thought i was a 36Cin fact i am a 38DD 😮 so at only 5' 2" a bit of a dolly parton ,  see i dont fall over cos ive had one to many after all LOL

My advice is go & get your boobies measured 🙂