Just to let you all know that I have heard from Fluffy - her flowers arrived from her cyber friends:

I don't usually post PMs as that is inappropriate, so I will just give you the 'highlights'. .

Dear Anne

I just wanted to thank you so much for the flowers - they are absolutely beautiful. I must admit I shed a few tears, as it was such a wonderful surprise.

Would you please pass on my thanks to everyone for the support and kindness that has been shown to me. I really do appreciate it, it is a great comfort.

My dad is missing my mam so much. I am spending a lot of time with him as I feel sure it helps to be able to talk to me about his beautiful wife, and my mother who was one in a million. It is indeed a very sad time, and we miss her so much.

love Rita xx

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I have sorted a card and copied your personal messages of condelence to Fluffy (from this thread). 

That will be posted tomorrow or Monday.