Creeky, you deserve a truthful answer on this, and/so at the moment I can only go with my gut feeling and what I personally glean from the teachings. So I am going to have to go and check on a few things because I cannot give you an answer outright without doing so.

I understand what you are asking, and personally I would find it wrong too, so I need to know myself. I need to do some research.

Re Creeky's Question and your answer (Post #321) ~ I am wondering what your "Research" has unearthed ... having already had your "gut feelings", you said you'd ~

 "have to go and check on a few things because I cannot give you an answer outright without doing so." ~

but, apart from attempting to tear mitzigirl apart, we've heard nothing further from you on this particularly relevant subject.