Ok..well let me be blunt with you

Speak for yourself and not me.  Did i say anyone is more important that some else...of course not;

Again.....you know nothing about us or our current circumstances.   All i will say is....i would not wish them on our worst enemy.  I do not mean financially either...this is a matter of life or death so kindly back off.

I am trying NOT to share personal details BUT save to say....yes we do need our car.  We need it to travel so my hubby can give bone marrow urgently to save someones life.