I feel exactly the same about the children, .I cry buckets of tears every time I see them.

The parents are just desensitised completely, not capable of thinking in a rational way, they certainly won't be thinking "oh we can't do this because"

I'm not sure it right but I do have sympathy in some circumstances.  It is a terrible situation many are having to endure, I don't think it is my place to judge at all.  Xx