GREEDY !!!!!!!!!!!!! and she and her immediate family would not even get a Christams card from me if I was one of her relatives. What kind of message is she passing on to her children about the meaning of Christmas, "oh yes kids the message for Christmas is, expect lots of gifts from your relatives then rip them off because we invited them for dinner".

In fact I would have nothing to do with her at all at any time of year.