Despite my personal views on this matter, I do indeed respect everybody's right to a free choice.........no bullying !!  However, with that choice should come repercussions.......good or bad.  Unfortunately, any bad repercussions tend to fall on those that would not have had it the way they were forced to accept.......I think democracy is the word. Like people who go climbing, in the height of winter, of their own free will and then get into trouble; others put their lives in danger to rescue them..........when really they should die in the mountains.......exactly where their own free will put them.