Frog pie....I am not assuming that at all. And good for you for trying to get a better life, and working for it. I never assume. I have watched News items about this subject, and quite a few of these people have lots of children and no partner. Now...the ones that have never had a partner are the ones that are irresponsible...they assume. That the taxpayer will pay for their children. Then there are the ones who had a partner but no longer have one. In that case the children's fathers should be paying for their children...not the taxpayer. I know that the system is flawed, that is plainly obvious. But the fact is, there are many women who have children without ever having a partner who pays, and this is grossly irresponsible.