I find that so sad...that you and your church think that your brother is living a life of 'error'. He was made that way, and if you think that we humans are created by God, then he was created that way by your God. A member of my family is gay, and I love that person even more for it. Being born that way makes life even harder for them, without being told they live a life of 'error' and should change their ways. None of us are perfect...we are all 'sinners' in one way or another. As Harry said....live and let live.