CD, do you really know and understand  what disfellowshipping really is and how and why it is followed through. If you get the right information and understanding of it then write that down here too. It puts a whole new take on it.

You only chose to write just those few words to get the result you want and that is to discredit.

I actually understand and accept why and how a disfellowshipping is done. No I would not want to be disfellowshipped myself because that would mean I had displeased my God, shown I have no respect and appreciation for my creator and have an independant houghty spirit. If however I did get disfellowshipped I would still be loved and welcomed back with open arms if I really showed I loved my God and wanted to be obedient. Because there is so much at stake i.e. someones everlasting life the Jehovah has to be consistent and Just in his dealings with us. 

He is Just because he educates us very well on how we can attain that everlasting life and helps us and forgives us many times to get there.

This is only in answer to your post and my opinion on what I have learnt personally.