Hello Harry, I have heard stories of zwarte Piet
And there are similar tales around the world.
Trouble is these are things , stories, memories call them what you like, we have a sentimental connection with But they are totally unacceptable to many these days.
I had a conversation last night with a couple I there early 20s, high flying, well educated young professionals with sound heads. I was shocked how intolerant they were of so many things. They see our multi cultural society undermined by our former role as colonial rulers. They were scathing of one elderly pensioner who made a statement they considered stereotyped a particular group. I didn't feel any way stressed but they clearly were.
My story and yours highlight a generation gap.
What we did and the way we acted was considered normal. Today that is no longer the case, we must hide our heads in shame and repent. Despite the fact that at the time no malicious intent was implied.
I have had the deep pleasure of the odd missive from two ebay mods both in their 20s both based offshore and both charged with deciding whether what we write is acceptable in this day and age. Truth is it cannot be we have to change, keep experiences to ourselves and go along with what our younger generations deem appropriate.
At the end of my chat with the couple last night I felt a bit guilty but I also am comfortable that there was no hurtful intent, so often that is the case but some show very little tolerance these days.