I totally agree, but once again you have the stigma of a man complaining & being laughed at, very wrong in my opinion it shows the mettle of the man in as much that he doesn't retaliate!.you say a third I suspect the numbers are higher because once again they don't come forward. Im sure there are many men in torment but unless they press charges the same applies to them the same as abused women, & as the other poster has said if there are children involved it can be difficult & I'm sure women in this same situation feel the same,,leaving both sexes in further danger!.