Yes but surely if you have any intelligence at all you know the difference between fantasy & reality,
I pass a couture shop most days & see Chanel dresses I can see myself in but I know I'm never going to have one, I know that's a simple & not comparable analogy , but it doesn't make me want to get a brick & grab one? This theory has been put forward & I can see why but surely it's not as simple as that, if it is then that's even more scary!!.